Hello, when i break a rule i have to send a naughty picture to My Daddy and this just doesn’t feel like a punishment for me. i told him this and he asked me what i wanted as a punishment and i can’t think of any. Suggestions??? Thanks!
That’s something you have to negotiate together with your partner. Punishments are going to be specific to your personalities, likes, dislikes, limits, needs… the list goes on.
Have a sit down and re-negotiate things like that together. Make sure you’re being polite of course, it’s not very nice to tell someone, “You’re doing this wrong” but it’s okay to say, “Hey some things have changed with our experiences and maybe we can re-negotiate our play?”
Best of luck!